An Immigrant’s Journey: Gratitude, Assimilation, and Responsibility
Reflect on immigrant experience in the U.S., stressing that assimilation goes beyond obeying laws—it requires learning cultural norms, showing respect, and building mutual understanding.
In this conversation, Krish Palaniappan shares his personal experiences as an Indian immigrant in the United States, discussing the challenges and perceptions faced by the Indian community. He emphasizes the importance of cultural assimilation, understanding both written and unwritten laws, and the need for immigrants to actively engage with their new society. Krish advocates for a positive representation of the Indian community and encourages immigrants to contribute to a harmonious coexistence with locals.
Takeaways
Krish shares his journey as an Indian immigrant in the US.
He emphasizes the importance of cultural assimilation.
Understanding unwritten laws is crucial for immigrants.
Immigrants should actively engage with local communities.
Positive representation of the Indian community is essential.
Krish highlights the challenges faced by immigrants today.
He discusses the perception of Indian immigrants in society.
Cultural exchange enriches the immigrant experience.
Gratitude towards the host country is important.
Krish calls for collective efforts to improve community relations.
Podcast
Summary
Introduction & Context
Shares personal reflections on being an Indian immigrant in the U.S.
Inspired by recent news, social media, and prior podcast “How Not to Be That Indian Immigrant.”
Goal: Encourage dialogue and reflection on assimilation, respect, and representation.
Early Journey to the U.S.
Came to the U.S. over 20 years ago for graduate studies (University of Houston).
Faced uncertainty with visa approval (roughly 50% chance at the time).
Initial excitement and anxiety about living in a new country.
Early student life was diverse: classmates from Asia, South America, Europe, and Africa.
Assimilation & Belonging
Personal experience of connecting with local Texans and international peers.
Observes that both he and his wife (Indian by heritage, raised in Malaysia/England) feel most at home in the U.S.
Emphasizes that assimilation requires more than following the law—it includes learning unwritten cultural norms.
Example: Adjusting language, pronunciation, and social behaviors.
Immigration & Cultural Tensions
Notes increase in Indian immigration volume compared to decades ago.
Rise in visible cultural practices (festivals, religious rituals) sometimes creates friction abroad.
Suggests immigrants should balance preserving culture with respecting host society’s norms.
Highlights religion as sensitive but stresses mutual respect and courtesy.
Responsibilities of Immigrants
Follow both written laws (legal compliance) and unwritten laws (civic sense, courtesy).
Make active efforts to assimilate: learn language, respect local customs, reduce noise/cultural clashes.
Assimilation strengthens two-way cultural exchange, improves perception, and builds acceptance.
Broader Parallels
Draws parallels with internal migration in India (e.g., North-to-South migration).
Notes challenges with language and assimilation even within India.
Praises YouTubers and foreigners who learn Indian languages as examples of effort.
Stereotypes & Perception
Acknowledges stereotypes about Indians (noise, civic sense, etc.) and stresses collective responsibility to counter them.
Argues that each immigrant represents their community—positive or negative impressions ripple outward.
Success stories of CEOs (Sundar Pichai, Satya Nadella, Shantanu Narayen) are exceptions, not excuses.
Calls for all 5M Indians in the U.S. to embody good civic and social behavior.
Gratitude & Closing Appeal
Living in the U.S. is a privilege; immigrants must remain grateful and respectful.
Assimilation and openness enrich both immigrant and host culture.
Rejects shortcuts like illegal immigration—emphasizes legal, honest pathways.
Vision: By 2030, Indian immigrants should be viewed even more positively, not just as professionals but as good neighbors and citizens.
